To hell with life

You people tell us to be ourselves, and then you judge us.
What is it that you - society - wants??
Even those who love you will try to change you.
Needless to say, YOU will try to change YOURSELF.
So who the hell are we actually?
Why the hell do certain people like us or talk to us or make friends with us?
Are they being a hell lot of themselves?
Or are they just like you?
Why the hell does those, who are hell perfect, keep being not themselves and are labelled as who they are hell not.
I think the reason people try to change themselves or are "not being themselves" and those who "try to be something else" is because people have already judged them and, obviously, dont like them for who the hell they really are.
And pictures lie so bad.
So what the hell man.
Be yourself or not??
This is me, how???
WHAT THE HELL IS IT THAT YOU - SOCIETY - WANTS?!?!?!